Faithful to the end, in spite of everything
“Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you.”
-The Gospel According to Saint Matthew
This is love at its most magnificent.
In order to love like this, we cannot be attached to ourselves. It is because we think so much about ourselves that we strike back, show resentment, speak harshly, move away. I have witnessed this phenomenon up close in the past couple of years. I am unable to understand my church friends who have been seemingly content to allow estrangement to remain, even to the point of leaving the fellowship due to the resentment that has been allowed to fester and become a cancer.
Jesus’ words do not mean agreeing with everything people say or supporting whatever they do. We sometimes have to oppose people we love.
Yet, if we do it tenderly, it is not likely that it will cost us a single friend. In fact, that person might say, “I’ve found a friend who will support me and stand beside me always.”
I am pleased that many of my brothers and sisters have stood the test of time and of conflict and have remained faithful.
On the other hand—in regards to those who have left out of resentment and hurt, it appears that the motivation for this kind of behavior is the falsehood that says—”I am hurt, and I remain resentful of that person, therefore out of my resentment, dislike and spite, I am going to withdraw my friendship and fellowship to them. That’ll show ‘em! That will hurt them back.” This is “an eye for an eye” thinking.
It is certainly an understandable human reaction. It just isn’t one that can be motivated by the Holy Spirit of Christ.
Like Jesus prayed, we must pray: “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.”
Only as empowered by the Holy Spirit do I believe it is possible to do this.
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